Monday, December 24, 2012

Our Miracle Before Christmas

Sorry for not updating sooner, I know I have been slacking off with the blog.   I do have a good reason though:)

Lady L was scheduled to be induced last Wednesday, December 19th.  However, at her appointment on December 17th, she was moved up to Tuesday evening.  Before the work day had ended on Monday, she had been rescheduled for Tuesday morning at 8am.  We were ecstatic, anxious, and so excited to meet our little bundle of joy.  Our plan was to go to bed early, sleep as late as we could, and get ready and do a final clean of the house before heading in to the hospital. 

Our plans changed when my phone range at 4am, and it was J- Lady L's husband.  She had been having contractions, and they were heading in to the hospital.  Aaron and I clearly have two different memories of what happened next.  I jumped in the shower, took an 8 minute shower (which is a record for me) and told Aaron we may as well head in, no use in hanging around the house.  He agreed, and while he was pondering how many sodas he should bring along, I was in the car, honking (yes, 4:30am- sorry neighbors) to move him along.  He still hadn't moved all that quick, so I backed up to save him a few steps, before I realized it was trash day, and yes, I knocked the trash bin over. 

We made it to the hospital and hung out in the family waiting room before Lady L and Josh brought us back to the room. She was dilated to 5, and had an epidural put in. We chatted for a while, and watched part of "Christmas Vacation" before she was ready for some rest. Aaron and I went back to the waiting room, watched a movie, ate some food, and napped. At 11:00am, contractions had slowed down pretty good, but she was dilated to 6, so they broke her water. At 1:00, there had been no change, so they started her on pitocin to get things moving along. Aaron was planning to buy a newspaper, and maybe grab a snack. Just before he was about to leave, he received a text from hi friend wondering how things were going, and he had just started to reply. One of the nurses came back to the room and let us know that the time was coming soon. She warned us the the pediatric team had joined the room, not to be alarmed, but Lady L's fluid had a tinge of color in it, an indication that the baby may had swallowed the meconium, and that they would use suction to remove it all and check her lungs. The nurse told us to use the restroom if we needed, gather our stuff, and make our way back. I was ready to go immediately, and Aaron was answering his text before we were on our way. The nurse came out and told us to hurry, Lady L was about to push (guys, listen to your wives when they tell you to put your phone away FYI.)

We made it into the room, set down our stuff, and Lady L moved her oxygen mask to ask the doctor if she could push. They said yes, she pushed once, and out came our sweet little miracle. She screamed, wailed, and showed off those perfect lungs enough to make the peds crew smile, tell us they would suction her mouth, but her lungs were in great shape. Aaron cut her umbilical cord, and they dusted her off. She settled down really quickly, and we saw what a beautiful, sweet baby she was right away. At 2:46pm on Tuesday, December 18th, Maizy Sue Klassen Dube was born 20.5 inches long, and 7lbs, 1oz. We took turns holding her, and of course Lady L was right after us. The expressions on both of their faces was amazing. Maizy scored 9 on both of her new baby tests.

We hung around for a while, before we were transferred to our own rooms (lady L was next door) and we spend the next couple of days getting to know our baby. All of the doctors and nurses commented on how alert she was right away. She is a perfect combination of Aaron and I. She definitely takes after my dad's side with the big blue eyes (so far:)) but has Aaron's nose, and a combination of the rest of her features. Lady L was able to leave before noon the next day. We stayed until Thursday, and were released into a perfect Minnesota blizzard. It was a nice ride, no worries with the roads.

Maizy has been a good sleeper, with the exception of one night from 12-6am when she was a little mixed up on her schedule. She isn't fussy, but wails sometimes when we change her clothes or diapers. She doesn't seem to be a fan of being cold, but we'll fix that:) She smiles a lot of the time (we know they aren't intentional, but they are beautiful anyway) and she is very comfortable and content with new friends, kids, and odd cats. She has been to 2 family Christmas gatherings, and her first mass. She was a perfect champ at both.

We are so thankful for this perfect miracle in our lives. We could not have done this without all of the support from our family, and friends, and we are so appreciative of all of your prayers and well wishes. Of course, we are forever in a debt of gratitude to Lady L and her family. They all made huge sacrifices over the year so that Aaron and I could finally have a child that we have wanted for so long. We will never, ever take her for granted.

Xoxo

Maizy's first picture, about 4 minutes old

First family shot

Lady L and Maizy

After we got into our room

Snuggling with daddy

 
Mommy's turn
Maizy and Nana, 3 girlies
 
Lady L and her family

First big smile on camera

Chillin

Her favorite ob doctor

Maizy and her doctor from Reproductive endocrinology.  He has know her since she was a 5-cell embryo:)

Just leaving the hospital

Lady L and J out on a date

First Santa experience

Tomato baby

Loving her dad

And mom

Looking at her grandpa.
 
Many, many more picutres to come.  We have over 500 now, and it's just the beginning:)
 
 

Sunday, December 16, 2012

The Waiting Game

This has been a long week.  As you know, we had prepared for baby girl to arrive early, after an ultrasound revealed that our sweet girl was measuring large for her age, I think it was by 3 weeks or so.  We have been prepared for her arrival for so long, we can hardly remember not being ready.  So, here we sit, as she is now 8 days late, and we hope for her to make her entrance soon.  The plan is currently to induce Lady L this Wednesday, December 19th, but that date might be pushed back as far as December 26th.  Tomorrow afternoon Lady L has an appointment, and we are hoping to know more then. 

As anxious, nervous, and on edge I have been feeling for the last few weeks, it's very hard to feel sorry for myself.  Many, many people are nowhere near as lucky as we are.  Although I want our baby in my arms more than anything in the world, I have absolutely nothing to complain about. 
Keep Lady L, her family in your prayers.  They didn't expect our little girl to be as late as she is.  And keep Bebe in your prayers, she is going to have a serious relocation soon, and we pray for a very quick, easy delivery, and a healthy screaming baby soon:)

Xoxo

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Overdue

We are so ready for this baby to be born.  Today would be ideal, as Lady L is running out of juice, and we are beyond excited to meet our little bebe.  Yesterday's appointment showed that Lady L's cervix has progressed, but there are no signs of labor at this point.  The doctor stripped her membranes again, and was confident that things should be moving sooner than later. 

He made an appointment to induce her if she doesn't go into labor sooner, and that date is one week from today, December 19th.  That seems like years away.

Baby was doing just fine.  Snuggled into some tight quarters, but still has plenty of fluid, and a heart rate of 136.  The doctor did the ultrasound formulated estimate, and baby weighs in around 7 pounds, 9 ounces.  So, tick-tock little one, let's get this show on the road!

I know it may seem vain to pray for anything other than a healthy baby, but if you wouldn't mind giving the big guy a shout, my sanity is being tested with each passing day:)

Thank you!
Xoxo

Thursday, December 6, 2012

No News

I know many of you have been curious, and I can tell you nobody is more excited/anxious than we are:)  However, there is nothing to report right now.  Lady L has no signs of labor, but will go back for a check up tomorrow afternoon.  Hopefully things are moving along by then, but our bebe may have other plans.  I'll keep you posted!  Xoxo